Wednesday, May 23, 2012
What's Wrong With Health Insurance in the US?
When we made the decision to adopt a special needs child, I did all the research on the health insurance and put everything in place to make sure that Chianna would receive health insurance coverage under my HMO policy through work just as the law states - adopted children are entitled to all the same coverage as biological children. Little did I know at that time that biological or adopted, health insurance doesn't cover all of the necessary therapy that any child with Cerebral Palsy needs.
So after we completed our adoption, Chianna was under the HMO I had with AETNA and the monthly premiums just for her were over $400/month. AETNA representatives on the phone straight up lied to me in their well known policy to "make the customer shut up and get off the phone". They said that after the first 60 days of therapy that they do cover all I would need was a doctor's letter stating that she would need to continue with therapy and that she would be approved for more therapy. Under the insurance policy, they also don't really cover the therapy sessions since the co-pay they charge is the same rate as a non-insured patient can receive - $50 per thirty minute session. Chianna was recommended to have two 30 minute sessions per week for speech therapy, occupational therapy, and physical therapy. I'm not sure who can afford $300 per week in co-pays, but it sure ain't us. Especially when paying over $100 per week already in her health insurance premiums. However, the reps at AETNA also told me that our policy had a $1,000 per year out of pocket maximum so that once we reached that total in co-pays, her therapy would be covered at 100%. So, we made the decision to invest the $1,000 to meet the out of pocket minimum, putting it on credit cards that were already almost maxed from our trip to Vietnam and all the other adoption expenses. Not only did AETNA neglect to make it clear that the out of pocket maximum was within the annual year, not a fiscal year from the date started (we were already in August at the time), they told me that she would be eligible for more therapy once the initial 60 days that they cover (but don't really cover because of the high co-pay) was over knowing the whole time that they DON'T EVEN COVER ANY THERAPY AT ALL FOR CHRONIC CONDITIONS, like Cerebral Palsy. What!? They don't cover therapy at all for something like Cerebral Palsy? Anyone else see something wrong with this picture? Not to go off on another tangent here, but for those who don't know, Cerebral Palsy is not a progressive disease - symptoms can actually improve over time with therapy, surgery in some cases, and other treatments too. Chianna has a right sided weakness from the C.P. and it mostly affects her balance and she has very little use of her right arm and hand. The therapy she is needs can help her become more independent by gaining a large amount of mobility in her right arm and hand and becoming more stable to prevent tripping and falling. I have seen first hand how much the therapy she has received to date has helped with this, allowing her to start to use her right hand as what is called a 'helper hand'. Her speech is also affected by muscle weakness, and thus the need for speech therapy too.
So after a long battle with AETNA over the coverage, the lies and spending countless hours trying to get simple errors on their part corrected, appeals, supervisors and almost $3000 in co-pays in 7 months, I finally found out that since they don't cover chronic conditions at all that Chianna would be eligible for the State of Florida insurance program for kids called Healthy Kids.I switched her to Healthy Kids and removed her from my HMO, and her monthly premium was reduced from over $400 per month to $135 per month AND her therapies were covered at $5 co-pay per thirty minute session. Why doesn't anyone tell you this? I have no idea and would do anything to get back the hours on the phone, writing letters, crying, pulling my hair out and going gray with the little hair I had left.
Once we were moved over to Healthy Kids, I called them and explained that my daughter had Cerebral Palsy and needed multiple therapy sessions per week and doctor visits, braces for her ankle and foot, etc. etc. The rep took my information and moved us over to a branch within Florida Healthy Kids called Children's Medical Services or CMS. Under CMS, the premium was only $15 per month and there were no co-pay fees at all! Plus we were able to get all the therapy the doctors recommended for Chianna. This gave us a big break in the costs since we had already spent so much and needed to recover. We did spend a lot of time taking her to therapy sessions and either Myke or myself always sat in on every session so that we could continue to practice and reinforce what was taught in therapy. The therapy place we were set up with and I was hesitant to leave was a full 30 - 45 minute drive from our house we made twice a week and the each time this was about a 3 hour process, so the goal of getting Chianna therapy was definitely achieved, but it definitely took up a lot of time; time we gladly gave up for her therapy though and so happy and thankful to be getting it. She was also receiving horse therapy once a week on Saturdays, which was amazing for her and definitely helped with her balance and core strength.
To give you an idea of the timeline, we dealt with AETNA from June 2009 - February 2010 when we switched to Healthy Kids CMS and had CMS up until October 2011. At that point I realized what else was wrong with the state insurance program. So here is where I get even a little more personal and reveal some normally private information. I normally would not share this and have debated for several months blogging about this at all, but I feel my story needs to be told - that MANY families stories need to be told and for the sake of hoping that someone who reads this will be able to make a change in the US health care system, which is definitely very, VERY broken. During 2010 and part of 2011 Myke and I were not making very much money from our family business, taking pay cuts to try to help it along. When we started a new business in 2011 and were able to take a higher salary, Healthy Kids moved us off of CMS and back to a different plan called Staywell under the Healthy Kids. It turns out that all the therapy Chianna was getting under CMS was based on being financially needy, not medically needy. A family of three cannot make more than $3,180 per month in order to qualify for CMS. First of all, that is a really low amount of money to be making, and second of all, why is this coverage based on financial need instead of medical need? Clearly a family that makes even $3500 or $4000 a week can't be expected to also incur the expenses of therapy co-pays, right? So the Staywell Healthy Kids plan we were switched to is the one with a monthly premium of $135/month and co-pays of $5. Still a very fair price to pay. However, this plan is only accepted by very few therapists and in fact, she has not had physical or occupational therapy since October 2011 because I have not been able to find therapists under this plan that accept the insurance, or even see children - the insurance is called Healthy KIDS! We finally just got speech therapy started about 2 months ago, and that is going great - it is with a speech therapist we love and saw when Chianna first came home and she is making tremendous progress. But (of course there is a BUT) that progress is hindered because the insurance only covers 9 sessions at a time. Chianna gets 2 thirty minute sessions per week. The insurance does not allow the therapist to request more therapy sessions until after the 9th session is completed. So our therapist put in the request the same day as our 9th session and then they took over 3 weeks to approve new sessions, so instead of her getting continual therapy like is recommended and prescribed for a patient with Cerebral Palsy, she it is basically looking like 4.5 weeks on and 3.5 weeks off. Consistency is really important with therapy so that regression doesn't happen, but that doesn't matter to the insurance companies. I guess I should be happy that we are able to get her any therapy at all, but when it comes to my baby, I want the best for her, I want her to be able to overcome as much of this handicap as possible and with children that have C.P., time is ticking, the older they get, and the more they grown, the harder it is for the therapy to be effective. Next time we have to get approval for 9 more speech sessions, I will be calling the insurance company to find out if there is anything we can do to make the approval process any quicker, but in the mean time, I have another issue I am dealing with.
I called the insurance company last month and explained to them that I have spent several hours a week for the last 6 months making phone calls going through their list of providers for physical and occupational therapy, leaving messages, waiting for return calls, pushing buttons on automated phone systems, etc. and none of them are seeing new patients or have openings, and half on their list don't even see children at all. They told me that if I get a letter from Chianna's pediatrician stating that her therapy is medically necessary and that since nothing is available in network, request to go out of network. I wish I would have known this months ago! So, that is where I am at now, I called her pediatrician's office and have now been going back and forth with them for over 2 weeks, because instead of just writing me the letter, they started to try to find therapists in network. I don't know if they feel they need to qualify that part of the statement in the letter or what, but I keep explaining that I don't need them to find therapists for me, that I just need a letter because once they submit the letter to Staywell insurance, it will likely be 2 - 3 weeks before they answer as to whether they will approve the request. Just to be clear, I love her pediatrician and the office, this is not a complaint against them, its just adding to the time consumption and frustrations and ultimately the delay in getting my girl the therapy she needs. If would have known that they would call all the therapy places on the list for me, it would have saved me hours of time and 6 months!
So now that I have let the cat out of the bag, I will try to keep the blog up with updates on our insurance situation. I know that we are not the only family facing this problem and I hope that if I speak out, it might help others as well as start to mend a broken healthcare system.
Next challenge after this one is seeing if Chianna qualifies under the insurance to receive Botox, which her physiatrist is recommending. More on that in another post. . . .
Until next time, wish me luck, patience and sanity!
Wednesday, April 18, 2012
Ms. Know It All?
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Happy Valentine's Day!
Chianna loves her Uncle Brian!
May the Force be With You this Valentine's Day! Chianna hand picked this one!
Chianna created this one!
Papa & Chianna definitely go together like Peanut Butter & Jelly!
De De & Chianna: cousins and friends forever!
Monday, February 13, 2012
George Washington
Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Dinner, Anyone?
Saturday, February 4, 2012
Bumble Bee
Thursday, January 19, 2012
Boys Germs vs. Girls Germs

So here is the latest Chianaism from Chianna.
The Day The Internet Fought Back
Google launched a petition. Wikipedia voted to shut itself off. Senators' websites went down just from the sheer surge of voters trying to write them. NYC and SF geeks had protests that packed city blocks.
You made history today: nothing like this has ever happened before. Tech companies and users teamed up. Tens of millions of people who make the internet what it is joined together to defend their freedoms. The free network defended itself. Whatever you call it, the bottom line is clear: from today forward, it will be much harder to mess up the internet.
The really crazy part? We might even win.
P.S. Show this video to as many people as you can. It works! http://fightforthefuture.org/
Approaching Monday's crucial Senate vote there are now 35 Senators publicly opposing PIPA. Last week there were 5. And it just takes just 41 solid "no" votes to permanently stall PIPA (and SOPA) in the Senate. What seemed like miles away a few weeks ago is now within reach.
But don't trust predictions. The forces behind SOPA & PIPA (mostly movie companies) can make small changes to these bills until they know they have the votes to pass. Members of Congress know SOPA & PIPA are unpopular, but they don't understand why--so they're easily duped by superficial changes. The Senate returns next week, and the next few days are critical. Here are two things to think about:
1. Plan on calling your Senator every day next week. Pick up the phone each morning and call your Senators' offices, until they vote "no" on cloture. If your site participated today, consider running a "Call the Senate" link all next week.
2. Tomorrow, drop in at your Senators' district offices. We don't have a cool map widget to show you the offices nearest you (we're too exhausted! any takers?). So do it the old fashioned way: use Google, or the phonebook to find the address, and just walk in, say you oppose PIPA, and urge the Senator to vote "no" on cloture. These drop-in visits make our spectacular online protests more tangible and credible.
That's it for now. Be proud and stay on it!"
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
SOPA Protests Black Out the Internet and My Blog Today
Monday, January 16, 2012
Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day
1. He'd dead.
2. It's a sad story.
3. He was good.
4. He was shot in the head by a bad man. (YIKES!)
5. There is a statue of him that she wants to see. (likely because she probably thinks it shows what happens when you get shot in the head?)
Anyone else think that "shot in the head" is a bit graphic for 1st grade? I didn't really probe any further to find out who told her that, I just figured I'd stop the conversation there before it got any worse with more questions that I can't or don't want to answer to a 6 year old.
Sunday, January 15, 2012
Daddy Is In Big Trouble!
Thursday, January 5, 2012
My Little Anthropologist
Thursday, December 29, 2011
Black Eyed Peas
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
Great Minds. . . .
Friday, December 23, 2011
Merry Christmas Jib Jab Videos
Chianna & The Santa Clause 3 Movie
We have been watching Christmas movies the whole month. We have all 3 Santa Clause movies. Myke and I have always loved them. We watched 1 and 2 already with Chianna this month and today we put on The Santa Clause 3: the Escape Clause. This is the one when the evil Jack Frost tricks Santa into saying he wished he was never Santa Claus and reverts back to the day he became Santa by putting on the jacket 12 years prior. Jack Frost becomes Santa and the last 12 years of Santa's life is re-written, definitely not for the better. During the process where he is not Santa anymore. Poor Chianna became inconsolable! She was crying hysterically, one of the worst crying episodes I have seen her have! We had to pause the movie and try to comfort her and explain that we should watch the rest to see how Santa saves the day and assured her it would be ok! We ended up finishing the movie and she was very happy in the end, but it was a real rough patch there! For those of you who know Chianna know she hardly ever cries and it really takes something big to upset her so much. Leave it to Santa!
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
On A One Moose Open Sleigh. . .
I took Chianna shopping today so that she could pick out something for Daddy for Christmas. I asked her if she knew what she wanted to get him, dreading that she would ask to go to the mall. (Dreading it since I waited so long.) But she said rather quickly, "Santa Lights". I then remembered that we were all in Home Depot a couple weeks ago and we were thinking about getting these particular lights. Evidently Chianna did not forget at all! So I had a few errands to run and while in the car, Chianna was going on (and on) as she does about when she grows up and has a baby that she wants to live where there are moose. I don't know what brought this on other than she has this new little toy moose from Papa.(She has been carrying it around non stop since Papa got this for her at IKEA the other day. Today it spent most of the day in her pocket and also she tucked him in the seat belt in the car for safety!) Although she does often talk about wanting to live where it snows. Which is odd because Myke and I do too, but we don't really talk about it to her. So she is babbling in the backseat about living where moose live - on another planet, of course! Which she realized and corrected and said another state. Then she says "and I won't have a car, my baby and I will ride a moose"! A moose? I exclaimed, and she matter of factly said yes. Then she broke into singing Jingle Bells but changed the line from a horse to a One Moose Open Sleigh - HEY!
Then after singing she went on and on insisting that we would not live near her, because she wants to visit us in Florida and we need to be "in pieces"! I asked if she meant "apart" and she said yes. I couldn't figure this out for the life of me, but she seems really serious about it and even instructed me "can you tell Daddy, please"? I don't know if it is her independence or just some idea she has in her head, but being far away from my baby, "in pieces" doesn't sound so good to me!
Tuesday, December 20, 2011
Sunday, December 18, 2011
Zombie Brains
Saturday, December 17, 2011
Chianna the Elf Sings Feliz Navidad!
Chianna the Elf Sings "Up On The Roof Top"
My Christmas Cookie
Friday, December 16, 2011
Dasher the Dino
We got her to bed a little later than usual since tomorrow is no school, and I read a book to her. After the book was done, I tucked her in and said I would send Daddy in to kiss her goodnight. At this point she always hides in her "egg position" as if she can't be seen like that, for a game with Daddy where he can't find her. But she was very sleepy tonight. Today was a big day at school, last day before Christmas break and they had field day too. She said in her sweet little sleepy voice. "I'm very sleepy, I don't want to play with Daddy when he comes in but I don't want to hurt his feelings, I only want a hug. Can you tell him, Mommy?"
Thursday, December 15, 2011
My Feet Hurt. . . .
Chianna: "What's wrong, Daddy?"
Myke: "My feet hurt."
Chianna: "Yeah, I have that problem too."
Me: {{{Literally ROFL}}}
It may not sound that funny in print, but in the context of things, that is an odd thing to come out of her mouth and is sounds funnier when she says it.
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Monkey Glue
Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Eye Drops
Evidently this works because the next morning on the way to school, she told me all about the dream she had that her and I were swimming with mermaids. (Or dolls with tails, as she calls them!)
Friday, December 9, 2011
Seaworld Christmas Celebration
Here are some more pics of our fabulous time.
Sunday, December 4, 2011
http://elfyourself.jibjab.com/view/DD9V1wSg4iDDY2NE?cmpid=ey_url
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
November Chiannaisms
So Chianna and I are on the Tilt-A-Whirl (after many other spinning rides) and after the ride really started spinning, her squeals of delight turned into: "I don't know, I don't know, I think something is coming out!" Luckily nothing came out, but now I have another funny Chianna-ism! LOL
Myke was making dinner.
Chianna: Daddy, I'm so hungry, I can't wait!
Myke: I am cutting as fast as I can.
Chianna: Cut faster!
Myke: I'm using a knife, if I go too fast I might cut myself! Do you want me to cut myself?
Chianna: I'm sorry, Daddy, I lose my mind! I lost it and I don't know when I find it!



































